the wakings themselves are normal
This is the part that gets left out. Every person alive surfaces briefly between sleep cycles, all night long, adults included. You do it and resettle so fast you do not remember. Your baby is doing the same thing. So the goal is not to stop the surfacing, because you cannot, and you would not want to. The goal is what happens next.
what decides whether it becomes a full wake-up
If your baby falls asleep at bedtime being fed, rocked, or held, that becomes the thing they associate with falling asleep. So when they surface at 1am, which they will, they look for that same condition to get back down, and they cannot recreate it alone. That is the wake-up you are getting called into. It is not hunger and it is not habit in the bad sense, it is a learned starting condition, and it is completely undoable.
why the fix is at bedtime
Because the association is formed at the start of sleep, that is where you change it. If your baby can practice falling asleep at bedtime with a little less help, the middle-of-the-night surfacings stop turning into full wake-ups on their own, because there is nothing to go looking for. How gently you make that shift depends entirely on your baby and on what you can hold to consistently, which is the piece I build with each family rather than hand out.
If the waking is paired with anything that looks like pain, feeding trouble, or a sudden change, that is a pediatrician question first, not a sleep one.
quick answers
Why does my baby wake every 1-2 hours at night?
Because they surface between sleep cycles, which is normal, and if they fall asleep with help at bedtime they look for that same help to get back down each time they come up. The pattern is set at bedtime.
Is my baby waking from hunger or habit?
Often it is neither in the way people mean. It is usually a learned starting condition for sleep, not a bad habit and not always hunger. Age matters, so check feeds with your pediatrician if you are unsure.
How do I get my baby to sleep through the night?
Work at bedtime, not the wake-up. If a baby can start sleep with less help, the normal night surfacings stop becoming full wake-ups. The right approach depends on the baby.
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